As they get older, men often appreciate their logic and general lack of emotional outbursts, along with the fact that Rational women tend to clearly state what they think and want. In high school, she had lots of friends but few dates. Her friends told her she was bossy and intimidating.
It frustrated her that what worked well in her career wasn't good in romance. At first she wasn't interested because she thought he was a light weight.
Counselors are scarce, little more than three percent of the population, and can be hard to get to know, since they tend not to share their innermost thoughts or their powerful emotional reactions except with their loved ones.
They are highly private people, with an unusually rich, complicated inner life.
Counselors are both kind and positive in their handling of others; they are great listeners and seem naturally interested in helping people with their personal problems.
Not usually visible leaders, Counselors prefer to work intensely with those close to them, especially on a one-to-one basis, quietly exerting their influence behind the scenes.
In fact, they tend to become the confidante of their inner circle of friends due to their exceptional ability to nurture others and guide them through their problems.
Although INFJs do not care about popularity, they tend to be well-liked among their peers.
They value staff harmony and make every effort to help an organization run smoothly and pleasantly. Lovegood Rational women tend to be late bloomers on the dating scene.They are sometimes unaware of or don't wish to follow cultural norms which dictate what is considered feminine.To outsiders, the outburst can see over the top and absurd, but the INFP has a very “internal” thought process in which they struggle to see the logical or factual side of things.They often go by their feelings rather than what science, facts, or logic suggests.